Highlights of the trip which couldn't be posted due to the lack of internet facilities:
Day 1: 25th of March, 2009 (Wednesday)
Day 1: 25th of March, 2009 (Wednesday)
Plane experience (Singapore to Shanghai): All nationality, except china nationals are required to take a boarding pass permit to enter and depart from china. On the back of that slip, it states, that foreigners are called ‘aliens’? Perhaps it’s directly translated, but then again, not quite. Anyway, I sat beside Kat and a local Chinese, and was rather apprehensive at first, but, he was really warm and immediately offered help upon realizing that I’ve a problem managing my 7kg hand carry (the compartment is too high!!). And so, we arrived at Shanghai, with a chilling temperature of 8degrees centigrade. It’s really heartwarming to have such warmth & hospitality. Besides the air pressure that undeniably left me with an excruciating headache, all else’s well at least.
Arrival at Shijiazhuang (42 Middle School): First sight, a little different from what we see on the internet, but, the research did help in making ourselves more at ease with the great uncertainty that’s before us. To say we’re apprehensive is an understatement, 9girls, a foreign land, a foreign school. We soon got used to it though. The teachers at the school were really warm, and they brought us to the staff lounge where we were allowed to make phone calls home. Everyone had a minute to talk; I used my hand phone though, roaming's cool! So, we were done, and we sat there waiting for half an hour to await the teachers, as they wanted to bring us around the campus to take a look. What an amazing sight! Tons of bicycles parked together, and the never-ending stares of the locals, as though we were well known celebrities. We probably looked too blur, and uncertain, I guess, our emotions were written all over our faces. The stares were nothing new though; it’s been this way since arriving at the airport.
From 42 Middle School to Dang Jia Zhuang: At around 5.30pm, the child from our home-stay family came to take us home. As the numbers dwindled, from 28, to 9 to 1! We had a group hug and bid our goodbyes reluctantly. School’s to begin at 7:30am the following day, I’d probably reach by 7am though, Si Lin (my home-stay buddy) has exams tomorrow. I’m to turn in at 10pm today, guess, it’ll do me good as well, and the lack of sleep from the plane ride can really take its toil.
Day 2: 26th of March, 2009 (Thursday)
Another 6am routine: Headed to do my daily routines; the brushing of teeth, washing of face and the usage of the toilets, was not able to bathe though. This was not attributed to laziness or part thereof; rather it was due to the lack of heating facilities!! I can only bathe when the sun is bright and sunny, because, apparently, the heater is solar powered, and this is NOT Singapore, so you can’t expect the bright sun to be shining overhead every minute till nightfall, it just doesn’t work that way. In addition, the toilet has a faulty lock and only half frosted glass!! Mr. Wong said that we’ll start missing home on the 10th day, however, many of the girls are already feeling the full impact of missing our homeland, the people, the food, the traffic conditions, the clean air.
Number 42 Middle School: We walked numerous streets down, before reaching the China phone shop, where we purchased local SIM cards. The lengthy journey coupled with a heavy bag, I don’t have to elaborate don’t I? Spent a total of 100 RMB on the SIM card, which was a two-way plan between local calls and Singapore calls. After which, we headed back to school for Chinese lessons. Seeing how the teacher painstakingly teach Chinese with the aid of English words just so that the students can have a better grasp of the subject really warmed my heart, it made me recollect what my secondary 3 Chinese teacher did for me, the way she taught, the way it felt so right, the way it made me strive for the best within me.
怀特:We took a taxi for more than half an hour before reaching Huai Te. The first I saw was Macs & KFC! Oh what great joy! I headed straight for Macs. Fillet-O-Fish!! =D Walked around that a place which looked similar to Seiyu. The stuff there isn’t that bad, besides it being a little steep? Yes, with reference to the price of course. After which, we brought 12 sets of MacDonald’s, for the guys because it was Calvin’s birthday, hence we celebrated with him, with Macs. Sorry that we couldn’t get you a cake, Calvin. = (The 12 sets of MacDonald’s were where Jinnie and I made a joke out of ourselves. A step-by-step run-through of the events that unfolded with relevance to the food is as follow:
- 12 sets of Mac Spicy sets were loaded into this huge carton. (The lady said it would be easier to carry that way.)
- As we walked from one end of the shopping centre to the other, our hands felt wet, we didn’t think much of it, as we thought it was the vapor from the coldness of the drinks.
- We checked the ‘beautiful’ trail we left behind and found something amiss; the ‘water’ on the floor is brown!! It’s coke! (that’s where we pushed the alarm button)
- We put the carton on the floor to check what had happened, to our horror, the caps of the drinks have came off due to the movements as made by us.
- Jinnie left me with the dripping carton and staring eyes and went back to Macs to get plastic bags to tie up the coke cups individually.
- We parked our carton in front of this lady who was selling shoes. She was very nice, upon seeing that we were in need of help, she let us use part of her shop’s space to tie and tidy up the mess that faced us
- After tying the coke cups individually, we lugged the carton back to meet Farhana and Carmen. In the process, we laughed at how embarrassing we were in a foreign land and as expected, this move garnered more stares. What an ‘adventure’!
Day 3: 27th of March, 2009 (Friday)
Number 42 Middle School: We woke up bright an early again to reach school by 7.10 only to be notified about an hour later that there are no activities in stored for us, and so we had the whole day of free and easy activities! Being girls, our likely location was to hit the shopping malls!
Xin Tian Di: The cab that I was in took exceptionally long, but, we were still too early as the shop only opens its doors at 10am. From across the street, we saw MacDonald’s, and as you can expect, yes, we headed straight for it, for a warm, nice breakfast. Coffee, egg sandwich and a hash brown was my preferred set meal (: We sat there and chatted, as we waited for time to pass. Surprisingly enough, MacDonald’s have one of the cleanest toilets in Shijiazhuang, it was great! There was a door, toilet rolls, odorless and a toilet bowl (such are not a common sight when one is referring to the local toilets), hence, it was a real blessing that we’ve found such amazing toilets. After which, we headed back for Xin Tian Di where we started our shopping spree. There was a wide variety of choices and we were spoilt for choice. Followed Jinnie into this shop where she purchased a wig, the shop keeper was very nice and very keen to master the English language. It was really nice that us foreigners received such warmth and hospitality here, and they are not afraid to put aside their pride and ask us for guidance with the English language. It was really admirable! Lunch was settled at Pizza Hut, it was fantastic to see such local brands in a foreign land, the food tasted like home, bringing warmth to our hearts as we savoured it. The price was almost equivalent to what we paid back home, or perhaps, slightly more expensive, it is an international brand after all.
Unexpected Call: Midway through shopping, we received an unexpected call from Mr. Dong asking us to return to school. I was fine with the decision; we could always return another day. After all there are plenty of opportunities.
Jinnie’s Home Stay Mum’s Restaurant: We met up with the guys for dinner consisting of 8 dishes. There were 11 of us, and hence we were given a room to dine in. The sounds that were made was resounding, it was loud and clear which was great, the feeling of having companionship is just splendid, cause in a foreign land, all you have are your peers. After which, we proceeded to grab bread for breakfast at a nearby convenience store. It was unusually chilling that night, and for some reason or another, I shivered through that night, quite literally, as my teeth chattered. Jonathan offered me his beanie and scarf upon seeing me shiver, which was a really nice act of kindness and fully exhibits the notion of helping fellow Singaporeans out in a foreign land =D Took a cab with Katherine home. To sum it up, it was a fulfilling day.
Day 4: 28th of March, 2009 (Saturday)
Day 5: 29th of March, 2009 (Sunday)
Shopping at Pi Fa: It’s the first weekend! Si Lin (my home stay child) decided to bring us to shop at Pi Fa mall; apparently, the place there reminded me of Bras Basah. A very artistically-inclined place, coupled with amazingly cheap books. I wasn’t very interested in the things they sold though, key chains, pens, pencil cases, booklets which no doubt looks cute, but it isn’t my cup of tea. We went to eat at MacDonald, when Mrs. Lim called; informing me that she’d pay a visit to my home stay family.
Walk in the Park: It was still early and decided to head down with Katherine’s home stay family to the park nearby. Oh! What a beautiful sight! The flowers are starting to bloom, the scenic view of vast greenery! The river where locals fish from, the whole atmosphere was really nice and breath-taking! We soon had to leave, sadly; it was a great place, gorgeous scenic view.
Visit from Teachers to My Home Stay House: At 5.45pm, Mrs. Lim, Ms. Heng and Ms. Tan came to my home stay house to pay a visit, with Jinnie and Dawn. She told them my eating habits, way of life which I think was a good idea, it made them realize that though I’m supposed to be fully immersed in the local culture, I’m a Singaporean after all, there are some things which are culturally different and they can’t expect a lot out of me. Before we left, my home stay mum told me that the only expectation she has of me is that I communicate with her daughter in English. That to me, is of course not a problem, I’m more than delighted to do so.
Dinner at a Restaurant Opposite 43 Middle School: I shared a cab down to 43 Middle School with Ms. Heng and Ms. Tan, where we met the guys who brought us to this restaurant opposite their school. They served smelly tou fu, spicy fresh water fish, BBQ chicken wings (this was great, had 3 sticks), coupled with rice, it was a nice dinner. Food wise and companionship wise, good time for us to get together and catch up on what everyone else was doing, with regards to their attachment and their daily life. Jonathan sent me to my home after dinner, (I didn’t feel safe going home alone), great buddy! :D
Day 6: 30th of March, 2009 (Monday)
Number 43 Middle School: I left my hand phone in the cab the night that Jonathan sent me home; hence, I had to make my way down to No. 43 Middle School to retrieve my phone from him. Jinnie accompanied me down and we spent our afternoon there. Dinner at MacDonald: Some of the girls from No. 18 Middle School came over to MacDonald to join the guys for dinner, but, most wasn’t in the best of mood anymore. Timothy went on to join them for lunch, whilst the others stayed in the dormitory. Subsequently, some of us went to join them at MacDonald as well. Ate fillet-o-fish, though, I’ve heard lots of stories about the unhygienic oil used, but, that was the closest taste to home, I had to try it. Jonathan sent me home again for the second consecutive night, I can’t begin to express my gratitude!
Day 7: 31st of March, 2009 (Tuesday)
Home for Dinner: Kat came to my home for dinner, and I had the dish that I found rather appealing, fried eggs and tomatoes, it tasted somewhat like a Singaporean dish.
Scary Walk Home: Kat and I compiled the power point slides which were supposed to be presented to the school, but till date, nothing of such has been spoken of, so I presume, there wouldn’t be a need for a presentation to begin with. I sent Kat halfway home after dinner. The walk home alone at night in a foreign land really tested my guts I must say. Though it is relatively safe, it nonetheless sends shivers down my spine as I think of all the possible mishaps which could befall us, thankfully, we reached home safely! (On the hindsight, we were probably too paranoid, it's a really safe country) :D
Day 9: 2nd of April, 2009 (Thursday)
Home for Dinner: I decided to head home for dinner despite having my reservations with regards to the dinner served. Apparently, they love to serve me dishes which I do not eat at all, neither am I an adventurous diner. Well, so, I had hot pot for dinner, there were noodles, vegetables and this queer looking thing. It looked a little like octopus tentacles, with a little bit of hair on it. So, I was told to put it in my mouth and chow down on it, upon swallowing it, I queried, “May I know exactly what am I eating?” The answer was, “Cow’s Stomach”. I went, “OH MY GOSH!” Never in my life had I ate an intestine of another animal, to me it’s just beyond comprehension, almost to the extent of being a taboo in my point of view! I was absolutely grossed out by that encounter and my stomach felt queasy after that. It could well greabe due to the psychological trauma which I encountered upon realizing the truth, but in any case, it’s over, thankfully.
Day 10: 3rd of April, 2009 (Friday)
Back to School: We went about our daily routine in school. 7:40a.m arrival followed by 3 and a half hour of either marking assessments, doing assessments or simply, sleeping away. Lunch time at the stall opposite our school was good. We had chicken hamburger for merely 12yuan and an ice-cream cone for 1yuan.
Dinner at Kat’s Host’s House: Katherine and I headed straight for her host’s house after school for dinner. Dinner at Katherine’s house is always scrumptious, it tasted so much like our Singaporean dishes, it later dawned on me that the family is 南方人; hence the style of cooking is similar to our ancestors who came from the same province of China.
Day 11: 4th of April, 2009 (Saturday)
-Vanessa-